Well like i said i have stopped using the flat iron everyday. I took a shower about an hr ago and am currently air drying. But when i tough it for maybe 3 seconds, hair comes to my fingertips. How can this possibly be healthy for me to loose this EVERYDAY. It cant be, which is why i think my hair is falling out. I am almost leaning toward the fact that my excessive hairspraying (to the point where ppl can smell it 2 hrs later) and moussing that it can cause my hair damage. Ceramic straightening after massive conditioning any better???? Is my hair falling out?
You hair is more likely to be breaking due to damage than actually falling out - though it is perfectly normal to lose up to 200 hairs a day.
Even though you've stopped using the flat iron everyday you're still going to have a lot of damaged hair which isn't going to go away until it's broken or cut off.
Heat damages your hair - so anything that applies dry heat - straighteners of any kind, hair driers etc are bad for your hair.
Your poor young lady
You should talk to your doctor about your diet and stop blow drying your hair as well as the iron. Each time you use either you are applying heat to your hair which damages it and weakens it.
It sounds like you do alot to your hair to damage it, and that will cause breakage. As for your hair actually falling out - healthy average humans lose anywhere from 50-100 hairs per day. It may seem like you're losing alot but you are really not. If you're that concerned it wouldn't hurt to visit a doctor. Good luck!